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To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting. ~e.e. cummings, 1955

He who trims himself to suit everyone will soon whittle himself away. ~Raymond Hull

God has given you one face, and you make yourself another. ~William Shakespeare

All my life I had been looking for something, and everywhere I turned someone tried to tell me what it was. I accepted their answers too, though they were often in contradiction and even self-contradictory. I was naïve. I was looking for myself and asking everyone except myself questions which I, and only I, could answer. It took me a long time and much painful boomeranging of my expectations to achieve a realization everyone else appears to have been born with: that I am nobody but myself. ~Ralph Ellison, "Battle Royal"

The life of every man is a diary in which he means to write one story, and writes another. ~James Matthew Barrie

Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation. ~Oscar Wilde, De Profundis, 1905

Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else. ~Judy Garland

We are so accustomed to disguise ourselves to others that in the end we become disguised to ourselves. ~François VI de la Rochefoucault

If you cannot be a poet, be the poem. ~David Carradine

A man who is "of sound mind" is one who keeps the inner madman under lock and key. ~Paul Valéry, Mauvaises pensées et autres, 1942

I am told to just be myself, but as much as I have practiced the impression, I am still no good at it. ~Robert Brault, rbrault.blogspot.com

It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are. ~e.e. cummings

Almost every man wastes part of his life in attempts to display qualities which he does not possess, and to gain applause which he cannot keep. ~Samuel Johnson, The Rambler, 1750

Hateful to me as the gates of Hades is that man who hides one thing in his heart and speaks another. ~Homer

How many cares one loses when one decides not to be something but to be someone. ~Gabrielle "Coco" Chanel

"Be yourself" is about the worst advice you can give some people. ~Tom Masson

I think of life itself now as a wonderful play that I've written for myself, and so my purpose is to have the utmost fun playing my part. ~Shirley MacLaine

Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself. ~Harvey Fierstein

Learn to... be what you are, and learn to resign with a good grace all that you are not. ~Henri-Frédéric Amiel

I am much better employed from every point of view, when I live solely for my own satisfaction, than when I begin to worry about the world. The world frightens me, and a frightened man is no good for anything. ~George Gissing

No man can climb out beyond the limitations of his own character. ~John Morley

There is just one life for each of us: our own. ~Euripides

Never apologize for showing feeling. When you do so, you apologize for the truth. ~Benjamin Disraeli

If God had wanted me otherwise, He would have created me otherwise. ~Johann von Goethe

Wheresoever you go, go with all your heart. ~Confucius

Let the world know you as you are, not as you think you should be, because sooner or later, if you are posing, you will forget the pose, and then where are you? ~Fanny Brice

Every time you don't follow your inner guidance, you feel a loss of energy, loss of power, a sense of spiritual deadness. ~Shakti Gawain

At bottom every man knows well enough that he is a unique being, only once on this earth; and by no extraordinary chance will such a marvelously picturesque piece of diversity in unity as he is, ever be put together a second time. ~Friedrich Nietzsche

The most exhausting thing in life is being insincere. ~Anne Morrow Lindbergh

Ride the energy of your own unique spirit. ~Gabrielle Roth

Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. ~Steve Jobs

Originality is... a by-product of sincerity. ~Marianne Moore

The strongest force in the universe is a human being living consistently with his identity. ~Tony Robbins

Almost all absurdity of conduct arises from the imitation of those whom we cannot resemble. ~Samuel Johnson

If you are ashamed to stand by your colors, you had better seek another flag. ~Author Unknown

It's wonderful when you can bring sparkle into people's lives without fading away from your own true color. Keep the hue in you. ~Dodinsky, www.dodinsky.com

To be natural is such a very difficult pose to keep up. ~Oscar Wilde

Best be yourself, imperial, plain and true! ~Robert Browning, "Bishop Blougram's Apology," Men and Women

Follow your inner moonlight; don't hide the madness. ~Allen Ginsberg, quoted in On Being a Writer edited by Bill Strickland, from an interview with Michael Schumacher

Don't forget that your spirit-twinkle makes life's rainbow shine bright. ~Terri Guillemets

All the knowledge I possess everyone else can acquire, but my heart is all my own. ~Johann von Goethe, The Sorrows of Young Werther, 1774

When one is pretending the entire body revolts. ~Anaïs Nin

I'd been so obsessed with getting my swag back but, then I realized the only people you really need to have swagger for are the people who don't care if you have any at all. ~Courtney Lilly, Lisa McQuillan, & Njeri Brown, `black·ish, "30 Something" (season 1, episode 17), original airdate 2015 March 25th, spoken by Dre Johnson about his 40th birthday party

It is not only possible to be the person you pretend to be, but there is less effort involved. ~Robert Brault, rbrault.blogspot.com

We are betrayed by what is false within. ~George Meredith

No man for any considerable period can wear one face to himself and another to the multitude, without finally getting bewildered as to which may be the true. ~Nathaniel Hawthorne, The Scarlet Letter

Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth. ~Oscar Wilde

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss

My mom always said I liked to stir the pot with a glittering spoon. ~Kris Carr

No creature is fully itself till it is, like the dandelion, opened in the bloom of pure relationship to the sun, the entire living cosmos. ~D.H. Lawrence

Men weary as much of not doing the things they want to do as of doing the things they do not want to do. ~Eric Hoffer

It is the chiefest point of happiness that a man is willing to be what he is. ~Desiderius Erasmus

Like the sky opens after a rainy day we must open to ourselves.... Learn to love yourself for who you are and open so the world can see you shine. ~James Poland

All the mistakes I make arise from forsaking my own station and trying to see the object from another person's point of view. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

Be what you are. This is the first step toward becoming better than you are. ~Julius Charles Hare

We all wear masks, and the time comes when we cannot remove them without removing some of our own skin. ~André Berthiaume, Contretemps

An unfulfilled vocation drains the color from a man's entire existence. ~Honoré de Balzac, Scènes de la vie Parisienne

The most important kind of freedom is to be what you really are. ~Jim Morrison

Be open. And then the truth follows. ~Gangaji

What I am is good enough if I would only be it openly. ~Carl Rogers

He who travels in search of something which he has not got, travels away from himself and grows old even in youth among old things. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson, "Self-Reliance"

There lurks, perhaps, in every human heart a desire of distinction, which inclines every man first to hope, and then to believe, that Nature has given him something peculiar to himself. ~Samuel Johnson

You must have control of the authorship of your own destiny. The pen that writes your life story must be held in your own hand. ~Irene C. Kassorla

You were born an original. Don't die a copy. ~John Mason

It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for something you are not. ~Andre Gide

There is in a man an upwelling spring of life, energy, love, whatever you like to call it. If a course is not cut for it, it turns the ground round it into a swamp. ~Mark Rutherford (William Hale White), More Pages from a Journal, 1910

Once conform, once do what others do because they do it, and a kind of lethargy steals over all the finer senses of the soul. ~Michel Eyquem de Montaigne

Most of our faults are more pardonable than the means we use to conceal them. ~François VI de la Rochefoucault

Man would be "otherwise." That's the essence of the specifically human. ~Antonio Machado

Individualism is rather like innocence: There must be something unconscious about it. ~Louis Kronenberger, Company Manners, 1954

Why try to be someone you're not? Life is hard enough without adding impersonation to the skills required. ~Robert Brault, rbrault.blogspot.com

We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be. ~Kurt Vonnegut

When you dance to your own rhythm,
Life taps its toes to your beat.
~Terri Guillemets

One's real life is often the life that one does not lead. ~Oscar Wilde, L'Envoi to Rose-leaf and Apple-leaf, 1882

The white light streams down to be broken up by those human prisms into all the colors of the rainbow. Take your own color in the pattern and be just that. ~Charles R. Brown

Rabbi Zusya said that on the Day of Judgment, God would ask him, not why he had not been Moses, but why he had not been Zusya. ~Walter Kaufmann


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